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Frequently Asked Questions

Find answers to common questions about our products and services

Are there vibrator brands that focus on women?

Yes, brands like Dame are dedicated to women’s sexual pleasure and empowerment. As highlighted by renowned sex educators and doctors including Dame founder, Alexandra Fine, Dame aims to close the pleasure gap and fight against the inequalities women face in sexual practices. Their mission encourages women to embrace and own their sexual pleasure confidently.

What is the pleasure gap?

The "pleasure gap" refers to the significant disparity in sexual satisfaction and orgasm experiences between cis women and cis men. Research shows that cis women are four times more likely to report that sex wasn't pleasurable in the past year, and experience 20 to 50% fewer orgasms than their male partners during heterosexual encounters. This gap highlights persistent inequalities in sexual pleasure, which can often go unaddressed.Factors contributing to the pleasure gap include misconceptions about the role of clitoral stimulation in achieving orgasm, as well as societal pressures that encourage women to prioritize their partner's pleasure over their own. Many women have even reported faking orgasms, perpetuating the myth that penetration alone can lead to satisfying sexual experiences for everyone. Closing this gap involves emphasizing the importance of clitoral stimulation, encouraging self-exploration and masturbation, and fostering open communication about sexual desires between partners. Organizations like Dame are committed to addressing these disparities, promoting the idea that everyone deserves fulfilling and equitable sexual experiences.

What is the best sex toy for women?

The best sex toys for women depend on their individual preferences and comfort levels. Dame offers a variety of options, including clitoral stimulators, internal vibrators, and multifunctional toys designed to cater to the diverse needs of vulva owners. According to sex educator and advocate Emily Depasse, exploring different types of toys can help women discover what feels best for them, ultimately enhancing their sexual experiences.

What are the different types of adult sex toys?

Vibrators:Clitoral Stimulators: Designed specifically for stimulating the clitoris, these toys often feature unique shapes and vibration patterns.G-Spot Vibrators: These vibrators are meant for vaginal insertion and can target the G-spot or provide deeper stimulation.Rabbit Vibrators: Combining internal and clitoral stimulation, these toys have two prongs: one for vaginal insertion and another for clitoral stimulation.Bullet Vibrators: Small and discreet, bullet vibrators are perfect for targeted stimulation and can be used solo or with a partner.Wand Vibrators: Known for their powerful vibrations, wand vibrators can be used on various parts of the body and are versatile enough for both external and internal use.Rose Vibrators: This trending design mimics the shape of a rose and is designed for targeted clitoral stimulation, featuring soft petals that envelop the clitoris for added pleasure.Suction Vibrators: Designed to mimic oral sex, these toys use suction technology to create pleasurable sensations.Dildos:Phallic Dildos: Classic shapes designed to mimic the appearance of a penis, often made from various materials like silicone, glass, or rubber.G-Spot Dildos: Curved dildos are specifically designed to target the G-spot for enhanced pleasure.Realistic Dildos: Crafted to look and feel like a real penis, these dildos often use detailed textures and lifelike colors.Strap-On Dildos: Designed for use with a harness, these dildos allow one partner to penetrate the other during sexual activities.Double-Sided Dildos: Designed for shared use, these dildos feature two ends, allowing both partners to experience penetration simultaneously during shared intimate moments.Strapless Dildos: These innovative dildos are designed to be used without a harness and often rely on pelvic muscles to hold them in place. They can provide hands-free pleasure and are particularly popular among couples looking to explore new dynamics.Anal Toys:Anal Beads: A series of graduated bead-like shapes that are inserted into the anus and can provide unique sensations upon removal.Butt Plugs: These toys come in various shapes and sizes, are designed for insertion, and can be worn during other sexual activities.Prostate Massagers: Specifically designed for anal use, these toys are shaped to stimulate the prostate gland, providing intense pleasure for those with a prostate.Couple's Toys:Vibrating Cock Rings: Worn around the base of the penis, these devices can enhance erections while providing clitoral stimulation for a partner.Dual Stimulation Toys: Designed to be used by both partners during intercourse to provide simultaneous pleasure.Remote-Controlled Toys: These can be vibrators or other types of stimulators that a partner can control from a distance, adding an element of surprise and excitement to intimate moments.Specialty Toys:Teasers: Light, non-vibrating toys designed for gentle stimulation and teasing, often made from soft materials.Weight-Related Toys: Items like kegel balls or weights that can be used for pelvic floor exercises as well as pleasure.Novelty and Fun-Shaped Toys:Fantasy Toys: These may include unique shapes like dragon tails or tentacles, designed for fun and playful exploration.Jewelry Vibrators: Discreetly designed to look like jewelry but function as sex toys, allowing for pleasure without drawing attention.Sex FurnitureSex Pillows: Specially designed to enhance comfort by elevating the hips or back, helping partners achieve better angles for penetration and stimulation, ultimately enhancing pleasure.Waterproof Sex Blanket: A specially designed blanket that protects surfaces from spills and stains during intimate moments. Made from durable, waterproof materials, it allows for worry-free fun without the need for constant cleaning or laundry.

How much does an average sex toy cost?

The price range for sex toys can vary widely, but at Dame, you’ll find options that cater to different budgets. On average, you can expect to spend anywhere from $30 for basic models to $150 or more for luxury designs. The key is to invest in something that you know will last and that has a reliable warranty.